You don’t actually need help thinking big.

You’re already doing that.

At this level, imagining upside isn’t hard. New markets. New products. Faster growth. Bigger bets. Most senior leaders I know have no shortage of ambition. If anything, they’ve learned to think several moves ahead without trying.

What’s heavier is something else.

You know how much it took to get here. Not just the visible milestones, but the quiet accumulation of decisions that compounded over time. The trust that had to be earned. The momentum that took years to build. The optionality that only shows up after a lot of things go right.

And you know how fragile that can be.

One decision made with incomplete understanding. One risk taken at the wrong moment. One move that looks reasonable on paper but lands differently in the real world. Sometimes that’s all it takes to undo a surprising amount of progress.

From the outside, this can look like caution. Or hesitation. Or a lack of appetite.

From the inside, it feels more precise than that.

You’ve seen how asymmetric things become as the stakes rise. Missing an opportunity usually stings, but it’s survivable. Stepping on the wrong decision often isn’t. Some mistakes don’t just slow things down. They quietly narrow what’s possible next.

That awareness changes how you evaluate risk.

Most senior leaders I talk to don’t actually weigh decisions by how bold they sound. They’re listening for something else. How much downside is hiding in the assumptions. How reversible the move really is. How much room there will be to adjust if the world shifts, as it tends to do.

Not because they’re timid. Because they understand leverage.

At some point, the question changes.

It’s no longer just, “How big is the upside?” It becomes, “What happens if this goes wrong?” Not as a way to avoid risk altogether, but as a way to avoid the kind of risk you don’t get to make right later.

Deciding from that place does something subtle to the work.

You can still move forward. You can still take real bets. But there’s a steadiness that wasn’t there before. Less internal noise. Less second-guessing after the fact. A clearer sense of what you’re protecting as you move.

Not certainty. Not safety.

Just enough grounding to keep making decisions you can stand behind as things evolve.

If this feels familiar, you’re not alone in it.

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I’m a cross between an executive coach and a mentor. Working with me is not just about the blocking and tackling of career and business, but all parts of personal development.

Before becoming a coach, I founded, scaled and successfully exited Tender Greens…

I’m a cross between an executive coach and a mentor. Working with me is not just about the blocking and tackling of career and business, but all parts of personal development.

Before becoming a coach, I founded, scaled and successfully exited Tender Greens, a restaurant brand I created from inception to $100 million in revenue and 1,200 employees.  Over 12 years, I dealt with co-founders, chaired the board of directors, managed legacy shareholders and private equity partners, navigating the growing pains of strategy, systems and people. I replaced myself in 2017 and retired in 2019.

My clients now range from VP through CEO and founder. I’m industry-agnostic and my referrals come mainly from clients, attorneys, fractional CFOs and private equity groups. I pride myself on my discretion.

Beyond helping my clients one-on-one get even better at what they do and have more fun doing it, I specialize in resolving conflict, thinking through transitions, and re-aligning partnerships and executive teams. I also lead off-sites where I use emotional intelligence, intentionality, mindfulness and strategic planning to make teams more intimate, focused and productive.

So, if your client is in uncharted waters in their career, experiencing overwhelm or conflict with their own success, their board, boss or team, or simply coming to (or needing to come to) the conclusion that what got them here isn’t necessarily going to get them there, it’s a good time to reach out to me. I would love to help.