You’re not worried about the risks you can see.

You’re more concerned about the ones you can’t see yet.

At this level, you’ve learned how to manage visible problems. There are dashboards, advisors, frameworks, and meetings for those. When something shows up clearly, you know how to respond.

What’s harder is the sense that something important might not be showing up at all.

Most senior leaders I talk to aren’t afraid of making a wrong call because they lacked intelligence or effort. They’re uneasy because they know how often smart, capable people fail for a quieter reason. Not because they chose poorly, but because they didn’t realize what they were missing at the moment the decision was made.

You think hiring the best experts is how you de-risk the next move. Smart people, sharp opinions, strong validation. At this level, that feels like the right defense against a costly mistake.

And it works, up to a point.

But really, what keeps the pressure on isn’t what’s visible. It’s the possibility that the frame itself is incomplete. If things go sideways, you know it likely won’t be because you weren’t capable or prepared. It’ll be because of something you didn’t know to look for.

Most experts are hired to be right. And being right often means reinforcing the path that already feels reasonable. They bring confidence to what’s in front of you. They pressure test assumptions. They validate plans. All of that has value.

What they don’t always help with is noticing what sits just outside the frame.

That’s why the vigilance never quite goes away. You keep scanning, revisiting, and double-checking. Not because you don’t trust the people around you, but because certainty is hard to come by when the stakes are high and the environment keeps shifting.

At some point, the work changes.

Instead of trying to eliminate every known risk, you start paying attention to what doesn’t quite fit. You become more interested in perspectives that feel slightly misaligned or incomplete. Not because they’re contrarian, but because they help you see the edges of your own thinking.

You stop asking, “Is this right?” and start asking, “What might I be missing?”

That shift creates something subtle but meaningful. You’re no longer just optimizing within a familiar frame. You’re expanding it.

And that’s where decision confidence comes from.

Not certainty. Not perfect information. But the sense that you’ve looked beyond the obvious, tested the boundaries of your own assumptions, and made the call with a wider view in mind. As things evolve, that perspective holds up better than any single answer.

This came out of several conversations recently with senior leaders who were navigating decisions without clean answers. If this feels familiar, I’m always open to comparing notes.

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I’m a cross between an executive coach and a mentor. Working with me is not just about the blocking and tackling of career and business, but all parts of personal development.

Before becoming a coach, I founded, scaled and successfully exited Tender Greens…

I’m a cross between an executive coach and a mentor. Working with me is not just about the blocking and tackling of career and business, but all parts of personal development.

Before becoming a coach, I founded, scaled and successfully exited Tender Greens, a restaurant brand I created from inception to $100 million in revenue and 1,200 employees.  Over 12 years, I dealt with co-founders, chaired the board of directors, managed legacy shareholders and private equity partners, navigating the growing pains of strategy, systems and people. I replaced myself in 2017 and retired in 2019.

My clients now range from VP through CEO and founder. I’m industry-agnostic and my referrals come mainly from clients, attorneys, fractional CFOs and private equity groups. I pride myself on my discretion.

Beyond helping my clients one-on-one get even better at what they do and have more fun doing it, I specialize in resolving conflict, thinking through transitions, and re-aligning partnerships and executive teams. I also lead off-sites where I use emotional intelligence, intentionality, mindfulness and strategic planning to make teams more intimate, focused and productive.

So, if your client is in uncharted waters in their career, experiencing overwhelm or conflict with their own success, their board, boss or team, or simply coming to (or needing to come to) the conclusion that what got them here isn’t necessarily going to get them there, it’s a good time to reach out to me. I would love to help.