Why do so many lawyers struggle to turn networking into new business?
Steve Fretzin explains that many lawyers fail at networking because of mindset. Too often, they attend events feeling uncomfortable, unprepared, or unwilling to engage. Many attorneys approach networking with the belief that they must sell themselves or deliver a pitch, which creates pressure and resistance. Steve emphasizes that
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Jay Harrington: Why Business Development Is a Skill Every Lawyer Must Learn
In this episode, Steve Fretzin and Jay Harrington discuss:
- Reframing business development as relationship-building
- The power of owning a book of business
- Clarifying motivation to overcome resistance to business development
- Executing business development with focus, structure, and preparation
Key Takeaways:
- Business development is not selling or persuasion but consistent, helpful relationship-building over time. The myth of “natural rainmakers” keeps
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Mathew Kerbis: How AI Is Forcing Lawyers to Rethink Pricing
In this episode, Steve Fretzin and Mathew Kerbis discuss:
- AI’s impact on billable work
- Recognizing the limits of hourly and flat fees
- Using subscriptions to create stability and scale
- Positioning lawyers for long-term resilience
Key Takeaways:
- AI is set to automate most billable legal tasks, collapsing the hours firms rely on for revenue. Continuing to bill time while effort
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Promoting Future Rainmakers
In this episode, Steve Fretzin and Mandy McCormack discuss:
- Recognizing business development as a critical legal skill
- Aligning coaching with motivation and execution
- Building authentic personal branding
- Creating lasting impact through structured support
Key Takeaways:
- Marketing, planning, and relationship-building are essential for long-term career success, not optional extras. Structured coaching transforms these skills into sustainable, high-ROI practices.
- Coaching works
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Chris Earley: How Lawyers Win Attention in a Crowded Industry
In this episode, Steve Fretzin and Chris Earley discuss:
- Treating consistency as the real competitive edge
- Building trust through authenticity over achievement
- Matching platforms to where your audience already lives
- Playing the long game of value before promotion
Key Takeaways:
- Showing up every day with content is not a tactic but the game itself. One post a day over
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Matthew Fornaro: Building a Solo Law Firm in the Age of AI
In this episode, Steve Fretzin and Matthew Fornaro discuss:
- Making solo practice more accessible than ever
- Using AI as a force multiplier for small firms
- Practicing ethical and intentional AI adoption
- Rethinking legal business models and skill sets
Key Takeaways:
- Starting a firm no longer requires a large office, full staff, or major upfront investment. A focused LinkedIn presence
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Wes Lungwitz: The New Rules of Law Firm Marketing
In this episode, Steve Fretzin and Wes Lungwitz discuss:
- Adapting to change in legal marketing
- Strengthening the website as the foundation
- Optimizing for AI-driven discovery
- Evaluating partners and acting proactively
Key Takeaways:
- Law firm growth now depends on adapting to AI, new search behavior, and shifting marketing dynamics. Firms that remain static risk losing visibility as discovery moves beyond
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Alefiyah Lindo: Why Burnout Is a Signal and How to Realign for Better Results
In this episode, Steve Fretzin and Alefiyah Lindo discuss:
- Planning the future by evaluating what actually worked
- Supporting happiness without trying to control it
- Using energy as a diagnostic tool for alignment
- Treating burnout as feedback and adjusting accordingly
Key Takeaways:
- Reviewing the past year reveals which habits, strategies, and commitments deserve to continue and which do not. Entering
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Deborah Farone: Developing Clients, Confidence, and Career Control
In this episode, Steve Fretzin and Deborah Farone discuss:
- Using business development as a path to influence and autonomy
- Starting relationship-building early in your career
- Aligning marketing with authenticity and personality
- Deepening trust by focusing on long-term relationships
Key Takeaways:
- Business development gives women greater control over their careers, choices, and leadership opportunities. A strong book of business shifts
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Charlie Gaudet: Escape the Founder Trap and Scale Your Firm
In this episode, Steve Fretzin and Charlie Gaudet discuss:
- Moving beyond hard work toward sustainable growth
- Escaping the founder-centered business model
- Outperforming talent using systems
- Protecting time as the highest-leverage asset
Key Takeaways:
- Hard work eventually becomes a liability when it replaces strategy, systems, and recovery. Sustainable growth requires designing the business so it scales without destroying the founder’s
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